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No big deal, just make sure you’re not making excuses so that you don’t have to call back when you say you will.
There was legitimately a point last year where I thought it might be hilarious to carry around this business card: I then, for some reason, thought it would be just as good (if not better! I never went through with using it for either of these purposes, which is good because that shit is tacky.
Your friends know you more than you give them credit for, and they’re always (usually? I never called this one girl back because she had a really boring name, and I thought that if things worked out, it would look dumb to have her listed on my Facebook profile.
This is where my priorities lie, apparently, and this is probably why I work on the Internet.
Yeah, you want her to know you’re into her, but there’s no need to throw yourself all over anyone. Leaving a little out will keep her guessing, which means she’ll want to talk to you more. My girlfriend apparently used to wink to pick up girls. That’s because they don’t, and that’s why it worked.
To pull this one off, you’re first going to have to master being confident. You don’t even really need to be funny for this one, as ‘charmingly awkward’ usually works too.
Last year I was running the first meeting of my school’s Queer Women’s Advocacy Committee, and a girl walked in late.
This is understandable and usually enabled by the fact that meeting other lesbians is something that tends to happen in very social settings.
While most girls answered, “My name is _____, and I’m here because I believe in visibility/outreach/magic,” this girl introduced herself and said, “I’m here because I think Katrina is really cute.” Sold. You have to be careful with overt statements like this though.